• Do you feel afraid of your partner much of the time?
• Do you avoid talking about certain topics out of fear?
• Do you feel you can’t do anything right for your partner?
• Do you wonder if you are the one who is crazy?
• Do you feel emotionally helpless?
• Does your partner scream and yell at you or your children?
• Does your partner hit, kick, push, slap or use other types of physical violence to you, your children or animals?
• Is your partner verbally abusive to you or your family?
• Does your partner treat you so badly in public you are embarrassed?
• Does your partner put down you or your opinions?
• Does your partner blame you for his/her abusive behavior?
• Does your partner see you as a sex object?
• Does your partner check up on you?
• Has your partner ever threatened to kill or hurt you?
• Has your partner ever threatened to commit suicide if you leave?
• Has your partner ever forced you to have sex?
• Has your partner ever destroyed your belongings?
• Is your partner jealous and possessive?
• Has your partner prevented you from seeing your friends and family?
• Has your partner limited your access to money, your phone or car?